I hadn’t done it before. I mean, I thought sex was cool and special so I was waiting to give it to a guy who was worth it. I wanted it to be intense, crazy and fun. I wanted to be in love with the guy and from what I’d read in Harlequin romance novels, the feeling was extra when the two were in love and wanted to please each other.

It was my first semester in the University of Ghana and I was ready to try anything fun. I’d always felt caged and restricted at home so, I felt so hyped up about leaving the house for uni. I felt like I’d finally been given a chance to be myself and let loose.

I had a couple of fun friends who had promised me extra fun and the first time we went out was my second Friday on campus.

I was cozying up in bed, wondering what at all I was going to be doing that night. I already had serious expectations because, ‘which fun person sleeps their Friday night away?’ So, when my best friend, Kevin, called and told me he was coming over to get me because there was a party ongoing outside campus and I had to be there, I jumped to it.

Reader, I hadn’t been to a night party before so I was a bit nervous but excited. I’d watched too many movies and seen pictures so I knew how to put clothes together to look sexy and fit in with the hot girls that were surely going to be present.

I put on a very short, flare black dress that my mom got me weeks before I went to school. Then, I straightened my honey-blonde hair, put on my foundation, eye-liner and red lipstick. Back then, I didn’t know much about makeup but the little I had on made me look pretty.

While putting on my very large hoop earrings, Kevin called that he was in front of my hostel. So, I got my shoes and purse and I rushed out.

I got to the parking lot and looked out for Kevin’s car; when I saw it, it was full. There were four girls in the car with him.

‘Where is this guy expecting me to sit?’ I frowned.

I went closer and he told me to join the car behind his and added,

‘He’s Richie and he likes you, so be nice.’

I shook my head and when I got to the car, my heart skipped a beat. The guy I was supposed to hitch the ride with was FINE. I mean, the kind of ‘fine’ that could make girls come after him and want to give everything up just to be with him. And he liked me? Wow!

I opened the door and sat in, feeling very nervous.


‘I’m Mary.’

‘I’m Rich. It’s my house we’re going to.’

‘Really? Is it your birthday or something?’

‘No, my folks travelled so I thought we should have some fun.’

He lived at East Legon so, that’s where he drove us to. We got there and there were like 6 guys including Rich and Kevin and the girls were eight, including me. We sat outside, in front of the pool and there were drinks, weed, brownies, candies and chicken wings.

I’ve already mentioned that that was my first time going to a party so I was new to all that but I wasn’t going to let that stop me.

I sat by Rich because he just wouldn’t let me leave his side. I got some of wings and a drink and I heard one guy talk about us playing ‘truth or dare.’

‘Yes!’ I screamed. I wanted to have fun

Just then, Rich gave me one candy and asked me to taste it and added that I would love it. It was black and as ignorant as I was, I chewed it and took two shots of Tequila to wash down the aftertaste.

Then, we started playing the game and I ended up kissing three guys. I was also dared to take my dress off, leaving my bra and panty. I thank God I looked good at least and Rich made me feel extra by telling me my body was perfect.

I was already high and couldn’t sit still. So, I sat on Rich and kept rubbing on his body. It felt good being with someone and I just felt like going all the way with him. The others noticed it and decided to end the game by daring us to make out in the pool.

I didn’t even know how to swim but the cannabis and alcohol in my body just made me jump up, hold his hand and I led him to the pool. We got there and I muttered,

‘I don’t even know how to swim’

‘Don’t worry, the shallow end is just 3 feet and I’ll hold you.’

We walked into the pool and standing at the edge, he rubbed his fingers in my hair while looking directly into my eyes and brought his lips close to mine.

Breathing heavily, he gave me a peck, pulled away and I opened my mouth in hunger and went for his lips. I completely forgot myself and the fact that the others could see us. I wanted more of the kiss.

We kissed for some time before he pulled away and said,

‘Let’s go upstairs’

I nodded. He got two towels, one for himself and the other for me and led the way to his bedroom.

He carried me as soon as we got to the room and put me on his bed.

I was supposed to have been scared or anxious because no guy had ever seen me naked and I should’ve mentioned that I was a virgin at least but I didn’t. I just went with the flow. In his bed, I laid on my back and he was on top.

He kissed my forehead, my eyelids, towards my nose and finally, my lips. He kissed me, tasting my lips and my tongue. Our tongues played around each other and as it grew intense, he hands reached for my back and unhooked my bra. Then, he held my boobs with one hand while the other held my waist up. He squeezed my boobs and played with my nipple, rubbing it and squeezing it.

I gasped and he let go of my lips and planted soft kisses on my neck, towards my cleavage before grabbing my right boob. He circled his tongue that felt so cold around my nipple and licked it slowly, before sucking it.

God! I loved it! I loved the sensations it created and how it seeped through my body and I could feel it in my virgin flower. He kept sucking and as I moaned, he let go of my waist and reached for my panty.

He traced his fingers up and down my vaginal lips and rubbed my clit through my panty, moving his fingers up and down while sucking on my nipple. This time, my moaning was extra loud. I was loving his touch and the build-up of pleasure in my flower. It felt so warm and so good and I wanted more. I wanted his skin directly on my clit so, I reached for my panty and tried taking it off.

Seeing what I wanted, he did me the favor and when my panty was out of the way, he dipped one finger inside.

‘Wow! The feeling!’

It felt magical. He moved his finger in and out, creating sensations that I’d never felt before. I opened legs so wide, wanting more, wanting to feel more of the sensations and he blew my mind when he went down on me.

With his hands holding my butt cheeks and squeezing them, he kissed my flower. He licked the entire area, from my vaginal lips towards my privacy and went back up. Then he lapped his tongue against my clit and made me scream,

‘God! Yes!’

I held his head with my hands to keep him in place and embraced every spark. He kept playing with my clit and sucked on it.

Every inch of my body trembled as he did this and I let go of his head and gripped the sheet for support.

He did it so well and suddenly, the pressure intensified. It started building up and grew more intense as he went on and on. I held the sheet tighter. My legs! My legs were shaking and boom! I climaxed and it was AMAZING.

He didn’t stop. He just got up and with his face directly over mine, he smiled and said,

‘You came.’

I nodded and he reached for my lips and kissed it for a brief moment before lowering his lower back and I felt his huge erection touch my flower. He was HUGE and I gasped.

I was high and on the verge of blacking out but my senses reminded me that my hymen was still intact. I should’ve been scared but I smiled and told myself,

‘I can do this.’

He saw the fear in my eyes,

‘Are you scared?’

I nodded, ‘you are so huge, but it’s okay.’

He smiled and I opened my legs wider, expecting my walls to relax for an easy entry.

Last thing I remember was him rubbing his head on my clit. He rubbed it diagonally on my vaginal lips and downwards towards my privacy.

How did I feel? Expectant!

I was ready for anything and luckily, though I was tight, he was able to go in slowly and every inch of his skin that touched mine created sparks that lingered on. That was when I blacked out and I woke up the next morning with a throbbing headache. He was fast asleep and I felt so embarrassed. It worsened when I saw the blood stains on his white sheet.

I wished the ground would open and swallow me up but since that wasn’t going to happen, I wore my panty and my bra, took my phone and rushed downstairs to get my dress and purse.

I didn’t want to see anybody and luckily no one was awake. It was 10 minutes past 6 and I rushed out of the house, looking like a prostitute because my dress was short and my hair was a mess and I didn’t even care.

I had to get to campus. I was lucky enough to see a taxi immediately I got out of the house, I stopped it and it took me back to my hostel.

That was how I lost my virginity and though I don’t remember much about him thrusting in and out of me, the sensations I felt as he went inside me were enough to convince me that I had an amazing time and I don’t regret losing my virginity to him.


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Ami Shikah is a Certified Sex Coach, clinical sexologist, and radio personality with an Advanced Postgraduate Diploma in Global Sexual and Reproductive Health Management. She loves anything and everything sex as long as it is consensual, pleasurable and free of any form of discrimination, harm or violence. On this blog, her aim is to promote sexual literacy, provide a source of arousal, and promote sexual wellness. If you need to talk to a sex professional about your sexual concerns or issues, she is the one to talk to. She can help you solve your sexual problems. She will help you have the most amazing sexual experiences and live the sex life of your dreams. Sex is a basic need and a natural part of who we are as human beings. Exercise your right to sexual pleasure today! Email her at for a complimentary sex coaching session.

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