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CUCKOLDING: WATCHING YOUR PARTNER FUCK SOMEBODY ELSE

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Originally, a cuckold is a man who sits back and watches his wife (the cuckoldress) have sex with another man (the bull). It’s similar to hotwiving where a married woman is given the go-ahead/ encouraged by her spouse to pursue sexual relationships with other people.

It turns a cuckold on to see his partner play the unfaithful wife right in front of him and lately, it doesn’t matter what your gender is, anyone can fantasize about being cucked. You don’t have to be a man to want to watch your partner have sex with somebody else. So far as you have a thing for it and your partner consents to it, you can go for it.

THE NUMBER OF WAYS TO GO ABOUT IT:

1. You can explore cuckolding through DIRTY TALK

You don’t always have to go all the way to physically explore kinks. You can just listen to your partner talk about fucking another person. It could be real or fiction but hearing them talk about it should make you a cuckold. It can turn you on to hear all the nasty things your partner did in real life or in a fantasy world to another person. Right after hearing it, you can have a hot sex session and you will love it.

2. Humiliation

A masochist is aroused when they are humiliated, so deciding to be a cuckold would have to come with some form of humiliation. Such people would want to be told how good the bull (the other person their partner is having sex with) is, how the bull is able to make you feel things that he, your partner is unable to give you and it will turn him on. It should be humiliating for you to tell another person that your partner sucks in their presence. You can talk about all the things that the other person (the bull) does that makes you feel so good and talk about how your partner isn’t able to do half of it. If that isn’t enough to turn a masochist on, tell me what is.

3. Bondage and Submission

Ideally, a cuckold should be tied up and unable to move or walk out of the room. It should feel like punishment! If you are watching, your partner and the bull (the person they are having sex with) should have all the control and they’ll require you to submit by staying put when they tie you up. Cuckolds are turned on by watching, so if it’s something you’ve fantasized about, you can give it a try. Once again, you can explore it via dirty talk instead of doing it in real life

HOW TO KNOW THAT YOU MIGHT BE INTO CUCKOLDING:

Does it turn you on to see your partner flirt with other people? If it does, you should take it to another level by watching them have sex with another person. You might love it! Also, if you aren’t sure whether it might be a thing for you, let your partner flirt with other people in your presence. If you end up finding it erotic, that’s a good sign. Go ahead and try it!

WHY I LOVE CUCKOLDING:

Cockolding is a kink that I have fantasized about for so long. The whole idea of watching my partner have sex with another person turns me on and I will tell you why.

I started wanting it when I found myself enjoying sex so much with somebody (from my past). If you know me, you’d know how much I appreciate good sex. I love to let myself go, just so that I can enjoy the littlest sensations; I just hate the thought of not enjoying a good moment fully.

So this is how I got into this kink:

I loved having sex with this man so much and it made me wonder how it’d look to watch him fuck somebody who wasn’t me. It was more about seeing myself as the girl and getting turned on by that. It’s like making a sex tape and watching it but this time, you are watching it in real life. I’d want to watch you do the same things you do with me with the girl. Touch her like you touch me, kiss her like you kiss me and fuck her like you do me.

There’s a thing about the girl he will go for though. Call me crazy but the girl has to look and be like me in a way.  I’d want you fucking someone with my energy. She doesn’t need to have my face, she should feel like me. Fucking her should feel like you are fucking me because her body is like mine and her mannerism is just like mine.

It’s a crazy obsession and I want you to understand how it could be so hot. Forget about it sparking jealousy especially if you love your partner and you are monogamous. Look at it from my point of view. It can help you appreciate your sexual moments with him more. Seeing him do the same things you enjoy with her and watching her moan and squirm to his touch will make you see yourself in her place. It’s a mental thing. We can’t make a duplicate of ourselves to be able to watch our partners fuck us, so this is our go-to and it works just fine.

The plus side is, it can be so sexy and you might want to join them for a threesome, so when planning it, leave it open for that. Just go for it if it gets too intense and you want to join in. This will happen when the girl turns you on to a point because you see yourself in her. So imagine how it would feel to make out with your own self? Just thinking about it is turning me on. This can do you a great good if you have a negative body image. It can make you appreciate how sexy you are and boost your self-esteem. If I were in your place and I was reading this blog because somebody else wrote it, I would be so turned on by the idea and I would want to try it.

It shouldn’t make you a freak for wanting it. It just makes you adventurous and open-minded. And like I always say, kinks are there to be explored. It might not work for you but it doesn’t hurt to try, just play it safe. If you decide to try cuckolding, you need to decide with your partner to put an end to it if it gets too uncomfortable for you. If you are NOT enjoying it as you should, just get up and abort the mission.

GIVE IT A TRY AND TELL ME ABOUT IT!
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MENTAL HEALTH ADVOCATE, WRITER, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP EXPERT

Ami Shikah is a sex educator and mental health advocate. She is passionate about sex education and is working towards making her website/blog a place where people come to for knowledge and information that will help them make healthy decisions about sex and sexuality. Mental health isn't treated with much importance in her part of the world (Ghana, Africa) and as someone who has had to deal with depression and suicidal thoughts, she hopes to share her experiences with the world and help other people like her. She has in-depth knowledge about sex, sexual health, sexuality, vaginal health, pregnancy and abortion and is working to share it all with the world. She has also made it possible for people to ask questions and get answers to them anytime.

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