Drunk Sex Vs High Sex

Ever had drunk sex? How about stoned sex? Which would you prefer on a normal day and which one would you suggest to a novice who’s trying to spice up their sex life?

Drunk sex is wild, fun and crazy. It can make you want to rip your clothes off and do it anywhere. I love the taste of liquor when we’re kissing and how much energy I have to want to ride and fuck and never stop. Does that make it better than high sex?

High sex makes you feel everything on a paranormal level. The sensations are heightened and you are able to appreciate what good sex is. I’ll go for high sex any day and I honestly wouldn’t want to get high if I’m not going to have sex after. Getting high always makes me crave the D and I think it’s ideal that way.


  1. Sensations and feelings are sort of numbed with drunk sex. It makes it easier to do the craziest things and not have much memories of how it actually felt like, unlike high sex. Get high and everything becomes intense; the kiss, touch and sensations are enhanced. You get to enjoy a more tender, sensual and compassionate moment that surely gives more explosive orgasms. So, at a deeper level, high sex is better than drunk sex.
  2. You tend to last longer with drunk sex than high sex. With the heightened sensations, you arrive at an orgasm faster unlike it happens when you’re drunk.
  3. You’re more likely to wake up with a stranger in your bed than you would when you’re high. For the latter, you usually end up with someone you’re already fucking or someone you’ve been wanting to fuck for so long. This is why people wake up with regrets because when you’re drunk, you sometimes lose your sense of reasoning, ‘everything looks good!’ You’ll wake up and find the last person you’d ever want to fuck in your bed and hate yourself for a brief moment. It doesn’t mean the sex wasn’t good though.
  4. Getting drunk makes you more courageous to go after the craziest things and it comes with aggression. It is what makes it fun and exciting. You can be driving and want to park anywhere and do it. You can hop into the car boot because you can. You can find an open place and do it. You don’t get that when you’re high.
  5. Getting high sometimes comes with insecurities. Women with a negative body image have it at a heightened level when they’re high. It makes them want reassurance that they are good enough. That makes it hard for women to cum when they’re high unlike when they’re drunk. Alcohol has a way of erasing self-doubts. It makes you say ‘fuck it!’ and you go all in.
  6. You get to try wild things when you’re drunk unlike you do when you’re stoned. With drunk sex, you might want to experiment with several positions, you might want to try anal, rim jobs, period sex, BDSM, threesomes or anything that comes in mind because you just do not care. You’re just trying to have fun and you have so much energy for it.
  7. With high sex, you feel more intimate and connected with your partner. It makes you love them more, want them more, appreciate them more and that strengthens your bond. With drunk sex, the excitement and energy is what keeps you going. It has little to do with bonding.

Truth is, high sex can feel like the best sex you’ve ever had. Once you’ve had it, there’s no going back!

It doesn’t erase the fun associated with drunk sex. Drunk sex is also cool but comparing both, I will go for high sex.

What about you??

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Ami Shikah is a Certified Sex Coach, clinical sexologist, and radio personality with an Advanced Postgraduate Diploma in Global Sexual and Reproductive Health Management. She loves anything and everything sex as long as it is consensual, pleasurable and free of any form of discrimination, harm or violence. On this blog, her aim is to promote sexual literacy, provide a source of arousal, and promote sexual wellness. If you need to talk to a sex professional about your sexual concerns or issues, she is the one to talk to. She can help you solve your sexual problems. She will help you have the most amazing sexual experiences and live the sex life of your dreams. Sex is a basic need and a natural part of who we are as human beings. Exercise your right to sexual pleasure today! Email her at amishikah@gmail.com for a complimentary sex coaching session.


  1. Well if there are differences, then why not get "drunken high" sex... You drunk and high at the same time then you sex it out

  2. I love this piece. You’re giving me Shan Boody vibes and I’m here for it💃🏿

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