EAT IT RIGHT

If You’re Gonna Give Head, Do It Right!

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‘I love it, I love it
I love it when you eat it
I love it when you eat it
I love it when you eat it

Suck my cockiness
Lick my persuasion
Eat my words and then
Swallow your pride down, down’

“Rihanna- Cockiness (Love it)”

If you’ve not listened to the song above, you should listen to it now. The song is talking about how much a girl or lady loves to be eaten out.

We enjoy it so much when you go down on us, specifically when you do it right to the point of making us cum. Sadly, this is something so difficult for majority of men to do. It is so bad and it is making some women not see the act as enjoyable but something we endure to stroke your egos as men ‘cause it gives you some sort of pride knowing that you are able to eat a woman out to the point of making her cuss and scream your name. We know this, so even if it hurts or we are feeling nothing, we will still moan so loud as though we are on cloud 9.

Surprisingly, though giving head is mostly talked about and a common term used, most men do not engage in it. Just a few men eat their women out and it is disheartening because it is one thing that makes women cum the most during sex. So if you don’t do it and your  dick game” isn’t strong, what the heck are you doing to your woman? Such men are the types I call ‘selfish.’ The most annoying ones are the ones who love to receive, like they will do anything for a blow job but will never ever take their heads down there to eat their women out. When you ask them why, they give the shittiest excuse. Some claim it is disrespectful to them as men to stoop that low to go down on a woman. What a myopic way of thinking!

Some men even find it nasty or disgusting to go down on their women. They don’t see the essence of going down to lick the vagina of a woman because they feel too insecure about how hygienic the act is especially because of the menstrual cycle and urine. They are just too daft to know that the vagina has a natural cleansing mechanism that ensures that when the woman’s menstrual cycle is over, the place becomes as clean as possible and whatever discharge that comes out after is safe to be swallowed. Truth is, only those who are matured and open-minded enough understand the whole act. That is what makes them glorify it and see it as worth giving their women whom they claim to cherish and love so much to want to please in any way possible.

Who is a man if he cannot go down on his woman and claim the pussy as his overall best meal created naturally by God with the most amazing feeling attached?

Who is a man if he cannot go down on his woman and make her cum to the point of taking her to heaven to give Jesus a high five and come back to earth feeling sexually refreshed?

One thing most men do not know about pleasing women is: in the long run it benefits you the most, because you pleasing a woman makes her feel psychologically indebted to you. It happens that, if you give her all she wants, both physically, mentally, and sexually, she will let all her guard down and want you more. You will bring out the freak in her and she will want to please you in any way. If in the past you couldn’t stand the thought of giving head, this should make want to.

There’s a lot I want to say but I don’t want to type too much; I don’t want bore you.

I want you men to understand how delicate an organ the vagina is. The vagina is like a beautiful rose flower that you pluck out from the rose plant. We all know how manhandling and squeezing the petals can destroy the beauty of the flower. That is exactly what happens with the clit.

You men need to understand that going down on a lady isn’t only about putting your mouth down there and doing anything you want with her clit. Some men go down there with absolutely no clue of what to do and what they do is to chew on the clit roughly; some eat it as though they are starved lions who have suddenly chanced on a prey and have little or no patience to devour the prey.

If that’s what you do, you need to stop now. Please, for the sake of our orgasms and future attitude towards the whole act, stop it. Stop acting like animals and learn how to properly go down on a woman. Stop groping!

YOU JUST NEED TO FOCUS ON THE CLIT

Use your tongue!

We want you to lick the clit, play with it with your tongue and if you are going to intensify the pleasure, suck on it with very little pressure.

Please, treat the clit with care and do not be sloppy about it. Lick it as though you have an ice cream cone that you love so much in front of you.

Find the clit and with tip of your tongue on it, flick your tongue.  Let go of any ill thought you have about the vagina and enjoy what you are doing. Just lick the top of it and don’t stop. Watch how we respond and if it isn’t positive, you can suck on the clit. Flick your tongue on the clit back and forth, left and right and don’t stop. Lick all around it. Go downwards and with your tongue in the vagina, trace your tongue upwards to the clit and keep licking. Hold us tight as you do it; spend so much time there. Hold our butt cheeks to bring your meal closer to you and squeeze them to add more pleasure.

Suck on the clit, intensify the pleasure we’re getting and ignore our moans. Finger us as you suck and lick the clit. Finger us with one finger or two, make it slow in the beginning and go faster with time. Enjoy what you are doing and we will enjoy every bit of it.

While licking, trace your tongue downwards, towards the vagina. Eat it for a while and go downwards towards the butthole and eat it. Lick all around it while fingering the vagina. The butthole/anus is very sensitive and gives more pleasure. Eat it and come up again to lick the clit.

We might take long to cum but do not let that discourage you. Just keep licking the clit and if we are enjoying it, we will definitely cum. Even if we cum, don’t stop. Just keep going and let our legs quiver. Be there for an hour if you want and just please us.

When you’re finally done, kiss us. We need the tongue play because we love to taste our vagina on your tongue. Trust me, there is nothing as erotic as that.

This is coming from a lady who understands how bad men are at the act to the point of making some girls think that sex is only to please males and give the females pain. Like, that is their idea of pain and pleasure and it is so wrong.  Sex is supposed to benefit both parties. It should be fun and mind-blowing, so stop under-exploiting the whole act.

IF YOU ARE GOING TO GIVE HEAD, DO IT RIGHT!

Let me know if you have any questions and I will be here to answer you.

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MENTAL HEALTH ADVOCATE, WRITER, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP EXPERT

Ami Shikah is a sex educator and mental health advocate. She is passionate about sex education and is working towards making her website/blog a place where people come to for knowledge and information that will help them make healthy decisions about sex and sexuality. Mental health isn't treated with much importance in her part of the world (Ghana, Africa) and as someone who has had to deal with depression and suicidal thoughts, she hopes to share her experiences with the world and help other people like her. She has in-depth knowledge about sex, sexual health, sexuality, vaginal health, pregnancy and abortion and is working to share it all with the world. She has also made it possible for people to ask questions and get answers to them anytime.

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