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WHY DON’T YOU SWALLOW CUM? This is why you should

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Reader, do you give head? Do you love giving head? If your answer is yes, why don’t you swallow??

If you don’t give head or you are a man who was wondering whether semen was worth swallowing or not, you are in the right place. In the end, I will give you reasons why you should consider swallowing and tips to make it easier and less uncomfortable.

SPITTER, SWALLOWER OR DUCKER?

Women who give head fall under three categories: spitters, swallowers and duckers.

Spitters and duckers are grossed out by the idea of swallowing. Some feel their gag reflexes wouldn’t be able to handle swallowing while others feel it tastes gross and is capable of making them throw up. Due to this myth, they’d rather not have semen anywhere close to their tongues or down their throats.

Spitters collect semen in their mouths and spit it out after. They either rush to the bathroom right after he cums or spit into a rag or tissues. Unfortunately, though several women spit, it is considered rude. This is because when men go down on us, we don’t see them exhibit the same reaction. They either just keep going or kiss us. They hardly treat it as nasty. If they would, they wouldn’t bother to stick their tongues down there in the first place.

Now, imagine a man going down on you and rushing to the bathroom to spit out the fluid right after you cum. How would you feel? Offended? Pissed? Ashamed? Won’t it make you feel bad and wonder if you smell or taste so bad down there? If you won’t like it, maybe it’s time to stop spitting.

Duckers do not want semen anywhere close to their mouths so they rather collect it on other parts of their body. They either let the man finish on their breasts, stomach or face. Anywhere apart from their mouth works for them and some people consider that sexy.

We already know what swallowers do; they swallow. Some do not necessarily love the taste of semen, they just let it go down their throats because it’s sexy or because they just don’t mind. Others also do it to please their men or because they’ve seen pornstars do it and think doing it will make them “bad bitches”. I don’t care about what inspires you to swallow, as long as you don’t do it because you feel compelled to. If it isn’t something you’re comfortable with, don’t do it. Do what works best for you.

HOW ABOUT MEN?

Some men are grossed out by their own semen. Others will want you to swallow but won’t kiss you after. Those ones are mad. Some won’t want it in your mouth; it can put them off. Such men won’t wait to finish in your mouth. They will let you know when they’re cumming so you can get the penis out of your mouth before the semen pours out. Or, as the pleasure heightens, they’ll ask you to stop and they finish via intercourse. So, if you are the type who swallows or you’re considering swallowing because you think it’s ‘hot’ or because you’ve seen pornstars do it and think your man will love it, this might not work for you. Make sure to find out what your man prefers and if it works for you, you can go with it.

DOESN’T IT TASTE AWFUL?

Semen definitely has a distinct taste but trust me, unless the man isn’t hygienic and has nasty things going on with him down there, it isn’t vomit-worthy. Semen tasting extremely bad could be a sign of a health issue. Someone likened the taste to that of baking soda mixed with water. If you have a man who loves going down on you and treats your vaginal fluid as something worth swallowing with eagerness, you should consider swallowing his semen. It doesn’t hurt to return the favor.

Some women complain of feeling nauseous anytime they swallow. This could be psychological because you’ve told yourselves its gross. Thus, the body reacts the same way it does when something nasty is consumed. Changing your perception and treating semen like saliva (kissing) will do you so much good. If it still doesn’t work for you, don’t bother to swallow.

IS SWALLOWING SAFE/ HEALTHY?

Semen is as edible and digestible as food because of its components. It is not harmful to the body. It even has cooking properties and is used as an ingredient for food and cocktails. The only problem with swallowing semen is the risk of infection, so until you’re certain your man is infection-free, you shouldn’t let his cum go down your throat. If you are not in a monogamous relationship, you don’t need to swallow semen and if it is just casual sex or a night stand, don’t even bother to give head.

Semen from an infection-free man contains a small quantity of sperm cells and harmless nutrients, proteins (fight bacteria, viruses and fungi), minerals like zinc and calcium, and sugars like fructose and sucrose. It also contains antioxidants which include vitamin E, vitamin C, superoxide dismutase, glutathione and thioredoxin. Truth is, though these nutrients are good for the body, you don’t get enough from swallowing semen. Semen released from ejaculation doesn’t contain much of these nutrients and whether you swallow it daily or not, the benefits you get are insignificant.

I’ve seen people claim all over social media and in blogs that semen whitens teeth because of the zinc it contains. There’s no scientific evidence backing this claim, so do not be brainwashed into swallowing cum because of that.

Some people also claim swallowing semen or semen entering the body through the vagina acts as an antidepressant. This also hasn’t been proven scientifically, so do not take it seriously. Having sex in general improves your overall health and having an orgasm makes it better because of its antidepressant properties. It has nothing to do with the semen released.

So, unless you’re doing it because you love to or makes you feel naughtier or sexier, never feel compelled to do it. Don’t let anyone fool you into swallowing his cum because of the so-called benefits that are insignificant in adding or subtracting anything from your life.

SWALLOWING INFECTED SEMEN

Swallowing semen can lead to the transmission of the following Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI’s):

  1. HIV
  2. Chlamydia
  3. Gonorrhea
  4. Herpes
  5. Human Papilloma Virus (HPV)
  6. Syphilis

The last three can also be transmitted whether you swallow or not, because of contact between the penis and the mouth. This is why you need to employ the use of dental dams or flavored condoms during blowjobs to prevent transmission of infections.

HOW TO MAKE SEMEN TASTE BETTER/ SWEET

The taste of semen depends greatly on the diet of the man, so if you want your woman to swallow your cum, why not put a little effort to make it taste good enough. For the women, you can get your man to consume more sweet foods like fruits (pineapple). You can also encourage him to keep himself clean, fresh and dry.

This table tells you all you have to know on how diet influences the taste of semen. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t eat some foods, just consume more of what will make it sweeter to mask the bitterness or sourness caused by the other foods.

Aside that, you can use flavored condoms. That should be on his dick for some time during penetration and after some time, you can switch to blowjob. The flavor will mask the taste when he finally cums and make it easier to swallow.

SWALLOWING TIPS

  • You can get the semen to miss your taste buds by deep-throating. If his penis is in your throat when he’s cumming, the semen will shoot down your throat and go straight into your stomach without you tasting it. This is for those who think the taste is gross and are worried that their gag reflex won’t be able to handle it.
  • If it doesn’t shoot down your throat immediately, just swallow it quickly. Don’t wait a second.
  • Some men ejaculate too much semen. So, if there’s just too much to swallow, just take the rest with your palm.

Since spitting is considered rude, some women usually include their hands when giving blowjobs. When you see that he’s about cumming, you take off your mouth and use your hand to harvest the semen into your palm. Then, you can clean it with a tissue or wash it off. That is a better option than spitting.

SEMEN FACIALS

Apparently, semen is good for the skin. Spermine, a powerful antioxidant in semen, prevents and clears acne/pimples and tightens the skin to diminish and guard against wrinkles. Why spend money on skin products when you can get all that from semen for free? Maybe you should give it a try.

Smear your man’s cum on your face for a minimum of 30 minutes at least. Do that at least four times a week and get that smooth and flawless face you’ve always dreamt of having.

This, just like every other thing, does not work for everyone. Some people are allergic to some proteins in semen, so applying it on their faces leaves their skin irritated. If you do it the first time and it doesn’t work for you, don’t do it again.

NOTE:

Swallowing isn’t for everybody. Some women feel sick in their stomach when they swallow, so it is advisable to do what works best for you. Don’t be compelled to do it just because you want to please your man that badly or don’t want to be rude. Like I said earlier, take it with your palm if you can, instead of letting him cum in your mouth.

And men, before you decide to put your penis in someone’s mouth, you need to talk. Find out what they like and let them know what you like also. Some women don’t want semen anywhere close to their mouths, so doing it might just be a huge turn off for them. Others also love swallowing, and they can moan as it goes down their throat because it turns them on the more.

You will never know until you ask, so have the talk with your partner.

And remember, communication is the key to having an amazing sexual experience!

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MENTAL HEALTH ADVOCATE, WRITER, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP EXPERT

Ami Shikah is a sex educator and mental health advocate. She is passionate about sex education and is working towards making her website/blog a place where people come to for knowledge and information that will help them make healthy decisions about sex and sexuality. Mental health isn't treated with much importance in her part of the world (Ghana, Africa) and as someone who has had to deal with depression and suicidal thoughts, she hopes to share her experiences with the world and help other people like her. She has in-depth knowledge about sex, sexual health, sexuality, vaginal health, pregnancy and abortion and is working to share it all with the world. She has also made it possible for people to ask questions and get answers to them anytime.

2 Comments

  1. Men,pretty extensive I must say.. Am a guy but I can't even go close my stuff. But pretty good read doe... Liked d pineapple part thoe

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