THE 2021 SEX CALENDAR
Happy New Year!
How was your sex life last year?
- Wild/Fun
- Nothing To Write Home About
- Nonexistent
Our aim this year as sexual beings is to please and be pleased. If it can’t go hand in hand, you have a problem: either let that partner go or have a serious conversation with them about how to turn things around for your own good. Don’t waste this chance to have an amazing sexual year!
Because I care so much about your sex life, I decided to give y’all a FUN, 2021 sex calendar which excludes December 2021 (I always have a separate Detty December Calendar). So, until December 1, 2021, do the tasks stated in this calendar.
Whether you are single, dating, or married, this is a calendar for you. Unless you want to be celibate, you might want to give it a try and do as much as you can.
RULES:
You can only skip a maximum of 10 tasks. Don’t be a loser!
The Tasks Strictly Consensual: YOU NEED CONSENT!
EXCEPTIONS:
If period sex isn’t your thing, you can take breaks when it’s that time of the month.
If you feel like you are losing control or you are doing too much (sex and masturbation) you can take a break, especially if the breaks in the calendar aren’t long enough for you
You can always go back to the calendar when your break or period is over and you can start having sex again.
THE 2021 SEX CALENDAR
| DATES | TASKS |
| JANUARY | |
|
Fri, Jan 1st – Sun, Jan 3rd |
Fri, Jan 1st: Write A Sexy, Erotic Letter To Your Partner (Hand-Written) Sat: Orgasm Denial- Whatever You Do, DON’T CUM! If You Cum, You Lose! Sun: Shower Sex |
| Mon, Jan 4th – Sun, Jan 10th |
Mon & Tue: Do Your Own Thing! Wed, Jan 6th: Cuddling Day! Touch Your Bodies, But No Sex Thu: Just Do Doggy! Fri, Jan 8th: Put On A Sexy, Seductive, Dance Show For Your Partner Sat: Floor Sex (Explore All Floors) Sun: Have Lazy Sex |
| Mon, Jan 11th – Sun, Jan 17th |
Mon: Dawn Sex Tue-Sun: Explore The 30 Missionary Sex Positions (Just Missionary!) |
| Mon, Jan 18th – Sun, Jan 24th | Play A Hardcore Sub And Dom With Your Partner For The Whole Week (Whoever Plays Sub This Week, Plays Dom The Next Week) |
| Mon, Jan 25th – Sun, Jan 31st | Play A Hardcore Dom And Sub For The Whole Week (Whoever Played Dom Last Week, Plays Sub This Week) |
| FEBRUARY | |
| Mon, Feb 1st – Sun, Feb 7th |
Mon: Overall STI Testing Tue-Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri, Feb 5th: Give Your Partner An Orgasm With A Shower Head Sat: Blindfolds With Sex Sun: Sexy Scavenger Hunt |
| Mon, Feb 8th – Sat, Feb 13th |
Mon-Fri: No Penetration! Just Foreplay! Sat, Feb 13th: Watch Your Favorite Movie Sex Scene And Recreate It |
| Valentine’s Day (Sun, Feb 14th) | Dinner With A Remote Control Vibrator + Make Love After |
| Mon, Feb 15th – Sun, Feb 21st |
Mon-Sat: Explore Tantric Sex Sun: Ice Play |
| Mon, Feb 22nd – Sun, Feb 28th |
Mon: Afternoon Sex Tue: Office Sex Wed: Spooning Day! Thu: No Sex Fri: Use A Vibrator On Your Partner Sat & Sun: Spend The Weekend Together, Naked Indoors, But Don’t Kiss, Finger, Do Oral Sex Or Have Any Kind Of Sex. Just Be Naked Together |
| MARCH | |
| Mon, Mar 1st – Sun, Mar 7th |
Mon: Have Two Rounds Of Morning Sex- 1 In Bed And 1 In The Shower Tue: Discuss Your Sexual Boundaries And Your Sex Life So Far Wed & Thu: Have Lazy Sex Fri: Have The Loudest Sex You Can Have Sat & Sun: Have Sex Anywhere But Your Bedroom |
| Mon, Mar 8th – Sun, Mar 14th |
Mon, 8th March: Devote This Day To Pleasing A Woman! Buy Her A Lingerie, Gifts And Take Her To Her Favorite Places Tue-Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri: Orgy Day! Sat: Use Butt Plugs Before & During Sex Sun, March 14th: Oral Sex Day! Just Give Head, No Penetration |
| Mon, Mar 15th – Sun, Mar 21st | Explore The 130 Standing Sex Positions |
| Mon, Mar 22nd – Sun, Mar 28th |
Mon-Thu: Explore Tantric Sex Fri: Men! Use A Cock Ring. Sat & Sun: Explore All Forms Of Impact Play & Spanking With Spanking Tools |
| Mon, Mar 29th – Wed, Mar 31st | No Sex, No Masturbation |
| APRIL | |
| Thu, Apr 1st | No Sex, No Masturbation |
| Fri, Apr 2nd – Mon, Apr 5th | Sex In Every State Or Region In Your Country – You Have 4 Days! |
| Tue, Apr 6th – Sun, Apr 11th |
Tue-Thu: No Sex Fri: CowGirl Day! Spell Your Name While Riding Sat: Try Fisting! Sun: Explore Breath Play – Safely (Including Choking) |
| Mon, Apr 12th – Sun, Apr 18th |
Mon: Sexting Tue: No Sex, No Masturbation Wed: Audio-Call Sex Thu: No Sex, No Masturbation Fri: Video-Call Sex Sat: Go To A Sex Shop And Get New Sex Toys For Couples! Sun: Use The Sex Toys You Got Together |
| Mon, Apr 19th – Sun, Apr 25th |
Mon: No Sex Tue, 4/20: High Sex Day Wed & Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri: Both Partners Should Take Aphrodisiacs And Have Sex Sat: Get Naked & Cook Together Sun: Sex In Your Backyard/At The Back Of Your House |
| Mon, Apr 26th – Fri, Apr 30th |
Mon & Tue: Do Your Own Thing! Wed: Have Fully-Clothed Sex Thu: Give & Receive A Golden Shower Fri: Have The Loudest Sex Ever |
| MAY | |
| Sat, May 1st – Sun, May 3rd |
Sat: Do Naked Yoga Sun: Have Sex In Every Couch/Sofa |
| Mon, May 3rd – Sun, May 9th |
Mon: Use A Ball Gag Tue-Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri, May 7th: Take Turns To Watch Each Other Masturbate. Just Watch! Sat & Sun: 2-Day Sex Marathon (A Getaway, Rent An Airbnb, Hotel Or Resort) |
| Mon, May 10th – Sun, May 16th |
Mon-Wed: Do Your Own Thing! Thu: Car Sex Fri: Play The Fastest Song You Know And Have Sex To The Beat Sat: Lick And Suck On Each Other’s Non-Sexual Parts Sun: Have Sex On A Washing Machine (It Should Be Turned On For The Vibrations) |
| Mon, May 17th – Sun, May 23rd |
Mon: No Sex Tue, May 18th: Fingering Day! Just Use Fingers (Any Number, All Holes!) Wed: Have Silent Sex Thu: No Sex Fri: Sex In Front Of An Open Fridge Sat: Sexy/Erotic Photo-Shoot With Partner (Self-Timer) Sun: No Sex, Just Cuddle |
| Mon, May 24th – Sun, May 30th |
Mon-Thu: Explore Several Role Play Scripts Fri: Go Out/In The Midst Of People, Turn Each Other On Underneath The Table Sat & Sun: Have Sex To The Slowest Sensual Song- Do It To The Rhythm |
| Mon, May 31st | Dawn Sex At 3 am |
| JUNE | |
| Tue, Jun 1st – Sun, Jun 6th | Get The Sexiest Costumes And Lingerie! Turn Each Other On But You Can’t Have Sex Until It’s Weekend! |
| Mon, Jun 7th – Sun, Jun 13th |
Mon & Tue: No Sex Wed, Jun 9th: Sex For Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner (Rough & Passionate) Thu: Do Your Own Thing Fri: Use Edible Paint Or Chocolate Or Ice Cream On Each Other’s Bodies And Lick It Off Sat: Explore ASMR Sex! Sun: Striptease (Take Turns To Do It) |
| Mon, Jun 14th – Sun, Jun 20th |
Mon: Sex At 3 pm Tue-Thu: Do Your Own Thing Fri: Feet & Toes For Sex- Turn Each Other On With Your Feet, Play With Them & Suck On Toes Sat, June 19th: Read A Sex Scene (Your Fav) In An Erotica And Recreate It Sun: Sex On Tables |
| Mon, Jun 21st – Sun, Jun 27th |
Mon-Thu: No Sex Fri-Sun: Invite A Third Partner For Threesomes And Cuckolding |
| Mon, Jun 28th – Wed, Jun 30th | Car Sex In Different Locations For Each Day |
| JULY | |
| Thu, Jul 1st – Sun, Jul 4th |
Thu: No Sex Fri & Sat: Swinging With Other Couples! Sun: Listen To Sex Podcasts Together |
| Mon, Jul 5th – Sun, Jul 11th |
Mon: Try Something New You Heard On The Podcasts Tue, July 6th: Just Kissing. Don’t Do Anything Else! Wed & Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri: Have Sex In A Room With Lighted Candles Sat & Sun: Explore Tantric Sex |
| Mon, Jul 12th – Sun, Jul 18th |
Mon: Have The Tightest Hug, Grab Each Other’s Butt And Spank It At A Mall Tue: Flirt With Someone Who Isn’t Your Partner While Your Partner Watches From Afar Wed: Your Partner Should Flirt With A Stranger While You Watch From Afar Thu: Kiss At A Mall Fri: Public Fingering Sat: Rough Sex Sun: Midnight Love-Making |
| Mon, Jul 19th – Sun, Jul 25th |
Mon-Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri: Tie Your Partner Up And Give Them A Great Time Sat 24th July: Explore The 10 Different Types Of Orgasms With Your Partner Sun: Put Together A 7-Day Sex Bucket List For The Next Week: One Activity For Each Day -From Monday To Friday |
| Mon, Jul 26th – Sat, Jul 31st | Do The Activities On The 7-Day Sex Bucket List |
| AUGUST | |
| Sun, Aug 1st | Activity on 7th Day Of Bucket List |
| Mon, Aug 2nd – Sun, Aug 8th |
Mon-Fri: Lunch Quickies Sat & Sun: Go Camping And Have Sex In A Family-Size Sleeping Bag |
| Mon, Aug 9th – Sun, Aug 15th |
Mon-Fri: Send Your Partner Flowers Everyday With A Raunchy Hand-Written Note. Each Day Should Go With A Different Note That Should Turn Them On Sat: Mid-Argument Sex Sun: Explore Dirty Talk |
| Mon, Aug 16th – Sun, Aug 22nd |
Mon-Thu: Do Your Own Thing Fri: Invite Friends Over/Or Meet Friends For A Sexy Game Night Sat: Have LOL Sex! Make Jokes And Funny Faces During Sex To Trigger Laughter Sun: Finger Or Get Fingered While Driving On A Lonely Road |
| Mon, Aug 23rd – Sun, Aug 29th |
Mon: Give New Names To Your Partner’s Genitals And They Should Do Same To Yours Tue: Eat From The Same Spoon Wed: Watch Each Other Pee Thu: Draw Each Other Naked Fri: Sniff Each Other’s Underwear And Make Out Sat: Share Your Sexiest/Naughtiest Secrets Sun: Make A Sex Tape, Watch It And Delete It Right After |
| Mon, Aug 30th – Tue, Aug 31st | No Sex, No Masturbation |
| SEPTEMBER | |
| Wed, Sep 1st – Sun, Sep 5th |
Wed: Make Love And Pray For Each Other After Thu: Get Naked And Meditate Together Fri: Do A Slow Dance Indoors With Alcohol & Dim Light Sat: Go For A Beach Picnic, Kiss & Cuddle Sun: Shower Sex |
| Mon, Sep 6th – Sun, Sep 12th |
Mon-Thu: Do Your Own Thing Fri: Go Clubbing & Have Sex In The Parking Lot Sat & Sun: Have Sex Anywhere But Your Bedroom |
| Mon, Sep 13th – Sun, Sep 19th |
Mon: Please Your Partner, Do Everything They Like But They Are Supposed To Be Still (Not Move), Talk Or Moan. If They Move, Moan Or Talk, They Owe You Something- Money Or A Punishment Tue: It’s Your Turn To Be Pleased While You Stay Still And Silent Wed: Have Fully-Clothed Sex Thu: Explore Hair Pulling During Sex Fri-Sat: Threesome Weekend! Sun: Have Sex In Front Of A Full-Length Mirror |
| Mon, Sep 20th – Sun, Sep 26th |
Mon- Thu: Do Your Own Thing Fri: Sex In Public (Don’t Get Caught!) Sat: Be Naked All Day, Have Sex If You Want, Touch Each Other Any Chance You Get Sun, 26th Sep: Post-Workout Sex |
| Mon, Sep 27th – Thu, Sep 30th |
Mon: No Sex Tue: Make Out In A Drive-Through Wed: No Sex Thu: Sex With No Kissing |
| OCTOBER | |
| Fri, Oct 1st – Sun, Oct 3rd |
Fri: Sex In A Moving Car While A Consenting Person Is Driving (In The Dark) Sat: Sex In Broad Daylight Sun: Cuddling & Kissing, No Sex |
| Mon, Oct 4th – Sun, Oct 10th |
Mon: Listen To Sex Podcasts And Talk About It Tue: Kitchen Sex Wed & Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri: Striptease! Sat: Office Sex Sun: Beach Sex |
| Mon, Oct 11th – Sun, Oct 17th |
Mon: No Sex, No Masturbation Tue: Try Weed Lube Wed, 13th Oct: No Bra Day! Titfucking!! Thu: Use Nipple Clamps Fri: Nipple Play With Ice Sat & Sun: Simultaneous Orgasms- Whatever You Do, Have Orgasms At The Same Time!! |
| Mon, Oct 18th – Sun, Oct 24th |
Mon: Pearl Necklace Tue: Give Head For An Hour Wed: Get Head For An Hour Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri: Explore Wax Play Sat: Go For A Couple’s Massage Sun: Have Sex While Eating |
| Mon, Oct 25th – Sun, Oct 31st |
Mon: No Sex Tue: Eat Ass And Get Your Ass Eaten Wed: Make A New Sex Playlist Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri: Have Sex To The Sex Playlist. Don’t Stop Till The Last Song Stops Sat & Sun: Weekend Sex Marathon |
| NOVEMBER | |
| Mon, Nov 1st – Sun, Nov 7th |
Mon-Thu: Do Your Own Thing! Fri: Sex In Water Sat: Use Handcuffs Sun: Have Sex With The Lights On |
| Mon, Nov 8th – Sun, Nov 14th |
Mon: Morning Sex Tue, 9th Nov: Foreplay Day, No Penetration Wed & Thu: No Sex Fri: Mutual Masturbation Sat: Anal Sex Sun – Play Sex Dice & Sexy Board Game With Friends |
| Mon, Nov 15th – Sun, Nov 21st |
Mon: Use A Vibrator On Your Partner Tue: Sex On The Floor Wed: Fully-Clothed Sex Thu: Use A Sex Pillow Fri: Show Off A Sexy Lingerie And Put On A Seductive Show Sat: Afternoon Sex Sun: Rest |
| Mon, Nov 22nd – Sun, Nov 28th |
Mon: Rest Tue: Explore New Masturbation Techniques Wed: Rest Thu, 25th Nov: Watch Porn Together: One Video Your Partner Loves And One Video You Loves Fri: Make Out In A Club Sat: Get Naked And Cook Together Sun: No Sex, No Masturbation |
| Mon, Nov 29th – Tue, Nov 30th | NO SEX, NO MASTURBATION |
| DECEMBER | DETTY DECEMBER CALENDAR |
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