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THE DICK SIZE DEBATE (THERE IS AN IDEAL SIZE)

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I LOVE DICKS! Yes, I am as straight as a rule so I can’t help it. But, there is a BUT; I don’t like just any dick. I have my ideal size and that it what this post is about. See, I’m so excited because I was on a podcast and I was made to feel bad, sort of, for saying that I didn’t want a 4 inches dick. I’m sorry if you were hurt by that revelation but I was being honest. It’s just what works for me and I’m going to explain it in this post.

Most sexually active females out there have that dick size that they would call IDEAL. It varies because we are different so this post shouldn’t apply to everybody. It is just to explain to you why I keep saying, ‘dick size matters.’

The dick sizes I’m going to be mentioning are in reference to the 5 dick size ranges. I have a post on that and you can read it here.

9- INCHES AND ABOVE

First dick I’ll refer to is the bazooka dick. Those dicks are a no-no for me. Like, no matter what, I’m not settling for a guy with that and I’m sorry to anyone who has that and was thinking of coming after me. Only time I was with a guy like this, it hurt. I couldn’t sit on him without the pain. The only thing we could do was the missionary and listen, he sucked at the other things so I wasn’t exactly wet. The dick just kept hitting against my womb and I kept thinking he was going to rupture my internal organs. That should count as my worst sex experience. Or maybe it was because I wasn’t all that into him. But still, he was the biggest dick I’d ever met and I never got with him again after that. I didn’t want him widening me up and I was scared for myself.

It looks so good on the outside and yeah I will admire it but I don’t want it inside me. I don’t even want it in my mouth. Just stay away from my vagina and my mouth.

I had a friend who told me how frustrated he was ‘cause of his dick. And you know one thing about such dicks, they are hard to find and immediately you get used to it, your vagina adapts to it. It’ll adapt to stretching to receive that size and so, when you two are no more and you meet the common dick sizes, it won’t feel like that particular one. And unless you accept that you are done with him and make yourself love this new one, it will be hard to let go of the bazooka.

I asked him if he had his girls coming back to him and he nodded.

‘Even the married ones,’ he said.

He also told me how girls wouldn’t want to open up for him because they get scared when they see his entire length and girth.

Guys, there are several girls out there who find your dick ideal, not me. I want to ride my dick. I want to get into any position with the dick without feeling any pain and from my experience, yours doesn’t work.

7 – 8.5 INCHES

This is my ideal dick size. Forget about dickscimination; this is what works for me. It has to have a good girth because I’m not referring to a dick that looks that long with a girth of less than 4.5 inches. That will be some skinny dick and it isn’t so ideal, sorry.

With this size, the dick looks so pretty. I would love to play with it because, wow! Now, I’m laughing. So, this is my ideal size and it works with any position. Talk about cow girl and a girl will just jump on it and moan as it goes all into her privacy.

Talk about her riding on you and she will do it and as she arches her back for it to move in and out, she gets it to hit that spot of heightened sexual pleasure and make her love being with you. Plus, that deep penetration makes it extra; it’s never ending. You could be his little spoon and fall asleep with this dick inside you and you’ll have the most amazing dream ever. This is one dick that leaves girls dickmessed. He’s toxic but you don’t want to leave. WHY? Because you love his dick and you wish you could cut it off and put it on that man who wants to give you the world but has a tiny dick.

5 – 6 INCHES

Not bad! Not bad at all. This is the AVERAGE DICK SIZE of the entire male population. If you fall here you are okay. You have a good dick and hopefully, you are wide enough. I’m not saying go and kill yourself because you are skinnier than usual. Just up your sex game and your foreplay game and you are good to go.

I don’t fuss over this dick because it takes very good guys to make it work. The thing is, it just isn’t my ideal size so I don’t really have much to say right now about it.

But listen, I know some girls who actually love this dick. Like, one told me she cannot take any dick longer than 6. So, this dick is GOOD. Just be good and sexy and watch that girl scream, ‘I LOVE YOUR DICK!’

And I forgot to mention that, it works with every position like my ideal size. You can go with doggy, cow girl, reverse cow girl, spooning and every other one you love.

BELOW 5

I don’t have much to say. Well, I’m working on a post about the positions that works for each of the sizes so wait on it.

Now, this is to give you a reason to smile: if you fall here, just know that, the middle finger or index finger can reach the G-spot. It’s just less than 3 inches deep inside the vagina. So, you don’t need to be 10 inches long to reach it.

So, if you are like 4.4 inches, you can work with it and make your girl forget how small you are.

YAAY, I’m done. NOTE THIS: the girth of the dick really matters though we hardly talk about it. So, focus on getting a bigger and firmer erection and if you have an average length, you are good to go. Hit me up on twitter with your questions or comments; or better still, leave them here and I will reply shortly.

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MENTAL HEALTH ADVOCATE, WRITER, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP EXPERT

Ami Shikah is a sex educator and mental health advocate. She is passionate about sex education and is working towards making her website/blog a place where people come to for knowledge and information that will help them make healthy decisions about sex and sexuality. Mental health isn't treated with much importance in her part of the world (Ghana, Africa) and as someone who has had to deal with depression and suicidal thoughts, she hopes to share her experiences with the world and help other people like her. She has in-depth knowledge about sex, sexual health, sexuality, vaginal health, pregnancy and abortion and is working to share it all with the world. She has also made it possible for people to ask questions and get answers to them anytime.

6 Comments

  1. Ami, first and foremost I want to thank you and compliment you for what you do...your writing style and honesty is absolutely refreshing...I am a fan! This article is accurate and I believe would be very helpful for all da Men our there wit questions about this from a Woman's aspect. I am married and have 6 children, I have a 9 inch penis and my girth is ridiculous...I have been wit over 100 Women sexually so I've had a lot of experience. I csn say wit conviction that My size has been both a blessing and a curse (I know other Men that are not as big say that's bs, but it's truth!) as many many of My sexual partners disliked da way it felt inside of them,.a lot complained of pain and discomfort. When I was young I admit I did not know what I was doing or how to use it, so yes...it was trash sex...but when I learned I needed to be patient and get my partner as wet as possible it became better wit some. My wife (even after all da childbirths) still finds my size uncomfortable when we start, she eventually accommodates me...plus we've mastered positions and what works for us.

    so again, keep doing what you do and I will continue to read and support...

    Peace Beloved

  2. Hello Ami,

    Is true there are a that big size dick most ladies fear but also go back even when the settled down.

    Recently met a lady and we had it on but was so sad for her as she couldn't hide her shame; this is because her ex was the extreme size so you can imagine how wide she was now even after a month or two not near him.

    For me ,a 6-7 type and from my observation, thick and BBW ladies enjoy me mostly as they say every position is their ish and a taste of orgasm 😊 ,by the way, am a slim guy.

    And with other normal size ladies, especially those with long distance pussy, am able to hit as they want it so for me ,is not been a problem for me as to top it up, l have mastered most of the foreplay techniques so to be disgrace before a woman is not in my dictionary .

    Greetings..

  3. Hy Ami am a guy who realease very early like 7minsi to sex, can u tell me anything to do about how to prolong my sexual activities with my partner. And it’s nice to know u write these things am getting to know more about my sexual life. I feel my girlfriend is not comfortable with it so please any suggestions to help me

    • My dear, by saying 7 minutes, what do you mean? Do you factor foreplay?? When you’re calculating, you start from when the penis enters the vagina. Kissing, oral sex and fingering isn’t calculated

      Now, it’s okay to cum quite early in the first round as far as it isn’t below 3 minutes

      To make you last longer, you need to check your lifestyle and stamina. If you’re a regular masturbator, you gotta check how often you do it.

      And there’s one trick, when you’re about cumming during sex, you need to work with your breathing and switch focus. Think about soccer, something disgusting or anything else and it will delay it

      There’s also a squeeze technique. When you’re about coming, squeeze the base of your tip or head and it will reverse the direction to make you last longer.

      Switching your focus is one trick you should resort to

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