Reader, you will agree with me that not any kind of porn can turn you on. When you sit down to surf through porn sites, you don’t just pick one, start watching and get excited. NO! That only works for kids or people who are watching porn for the first time. But for majority of you who have watched enough, fantasized about many things, eroticized many things and have engaged in quite a number of sexual pleasures, there are some things you look out for before deciding on what porn video to watch.
There are some keywords you input in the search bar and when it loads, you choose one which syncs with you mentally, physically and emotionally. One that can automatically have your clit pulsating and your dick throbbing out of excitement because of what you have in store for your genitals. And in that moment, every other thing on your mind is wiped out and all you focus on is the video you have in front of you. It works with your senses and makes you imagine yourself playing one of the characters plus, you get aroused and are able to stroke your dick or masturbate to climax.
Sometimes, we gravitate towards genres that relate to our fears and this negative emotion is turned into something pleasurable. This is why most people won’t let others know what genres they are into because to them, it is embarrassing. They don’t want people finding out what thoughts they have to make them eroticize such genres.
So, what is your preference? And what does it say about you as a sexually active individual?
REASONS BEHIND MOST PORN PREFERENCES
- Most preferences are based on the fact that they are taboos. It makes it intriguing because of the thrill that comes with doing abominable things.
- Some are from experiences from the past. It could be a painful experience like rape, a gang bang or a humiliating experience. Watching porn genres with such scenes just turns those painful feelings to pleasurable ones which in the end, arouses you to climax. So while watching, you who was a victim of that unpleasant experience are able to relive it and enjoy it because of the arousal that comes with it. It’s psychological.
This is one reason behind the preference for GANG BANG and porn videos about RAPE, ABUSE and BONDAGE
- Sometimes, it has to do with your upbringing. How were your parents when you were growing up? Did they flog you anytime you did something wrong that you got so used to it? Were they so controlling and strict that you kept to yourself and couldn’t discuss some issues with them? Were they always raising their voices and were you afraid of them? Porn just helps us to relive such experiences while escaping the guilt, shame or pain that came with them and this time, they pleasure us. That is what make us gravitate towards such genres.
People are drawn to BDSM because of such experiences.
- Other preferences have to do with your emotional need. If it is love, you will be drawn to the dramatic and EROTIC porn videos because you want to be loved so much. You want that long sensual kiss, you want your man to make love to every part of your body and watching such videos helps you quench that thirst. They fulfil your emotional need and arouse you better.
- Some women also have rape fantasies which makes them look out for porn videos that depict rape. This has nothing to do with them wanting to be raped. They just enjoy watching the dominance displayed, the control, and the vulnerability displayed; it evokes vulnerability and works with it to arouse them.
The Popular Porn Genres And What They Say About You
- LESBIAN PORN
Women: You’re either lesbian, bisexual or have lesbian tendencies because you like girls but haven’t been with one before. You might be straight but have had fantasies about girls or you just look out for something very erotic and sexy to get off to. The latter is why most straight girls love lesbian porn because unlike men, women concentrate so much on everything foreplay: they kiss longer, take time with the boob sucking, they kiss every part of the body and they eat the vagina so well. So, don’t be too embarrassed about this preference; you just watch exactly what you want to be done to you and in the process you get aroused and are able to touch yourself to climax.
Men: You find girls making out sexy and it turns you on to the extreme.
- MILF
Growing up, most boys find their female teachers, friends of their mothers or other older women sexually attractive. This is what draws some to MILF porn.
So reader, if you love MILF porn, you either have a thing for older women or you once found one older woman attractive and watching them have sex is like imagining them doing you. Some men find the dominance displayed by older women erotic and just love to watch an older woman who knows it all fuck a younger one like them.
If you can’t relate with any of the above, your reason for loving MILF porn should be because you were raped or devirgined by an older woman who rocked your world sexually at a tender age and watching MILF porn helps you relive those memories.
- HENTAI
I used to think people who watched hentai porn were plain crazy and I still do. Most of them have very wild fantasies that would look so fake when played out by humans so they resort to hentai porn. Some are just anime lovers who are highly turned on by anime characters fucking and others are introverts who are able to escape reality or ease boredom by watching hentai porn which have funnier and more interesting plots than HD porn.
Some of these people also just find hentai appealing because it is presumable more realistic than human HD porn which is ‘fake’ because it involves acting.
- DOUBLE PENETRATION
This is one of the most popular genres that women look out for and it’s quite embarrassing to admit that you love to watch a number of men fuck one girl and penetrate her at the same time. Most women love to see the holes get filled up completely with a number of dicks and imagining it being done to them is erotic. Others just love the attention; they love to watch a couple of men, could be two or more, play with one woman and it does a lot to them sexually. It makes masturbation extra fun because they get aroused to the extreme.
Like, imagine having more than two hands on your body. While one pair is fondling and playing with your boobs, another is spanking and playing with your butt and another one is fingering you and playing with your clit. It’s very arousing watching such videos and it doesn’t necessarily say a thing about their sex life or their past sex life.
Others also have been in orgies and watching such porn videos helps them relive those fun memories.
- EBONY
You are black and you want something you can relate well to or you just love black dicks or black women.
- BIG DICK
Women: You love big dicks or fantasize about big dicks.
Men: You have a big dick so you look out for a size similar to yours so that you can relate with the character more.
- BIG TITS
Females: you have big tits and you need a video with a character you can identify with. You want your huge tits played with and where else will you get that, if not for this genre?
Males: you just love big tits.
- AMATEUR
Other porn genres look so fake to you and with that in mind, they don’t arouse you well enough. This is why you choose amateur porn. You want to be able to relate with it so well and identify with a character in the video. That is what makes it a pleasurable experience, because you imagine going through whatever is going on in the video and in the end, you get so hard or wet and you’re able to give yourself mind blowing orgasms.
9. HOMOSEXUAL/ GAY PORN
You are gay or have gay tendencies.
There are several other porn genres but what I have here is enough. What’s your favorite genre? Let me know what you think about this long post in the comments.
My fav genre is family therapy
Maybe a busty mom showing the child how it's done
OR
It just doesn't have to be straight forward to fucking there should be little talk little teasing little body language b4