G-spot stimulation is crucial to the experience of orgasms during penetrative sex. If you’ve read my previous article about G-spot stimulation with the fingers for vaginal orgasms, you would know that the G-spot is a region on the internal clitoris. You would also know how to reach it for stimulation.
Hundreds of sex positions exist, and a lot of them make G-spot stimulation with the penis or strap-on dildo easier. What do you have to do? Explore as many as you can, a minimum of two per session, and you will discover which ones work great for you and which ones don’t.
My aim for writing this blog is to help improve the quality of your sexual experiences. It sucks that lots of people with vaginas do not experience orgasms during sex, so if this can make sex more pleasurable for them, won’t that be great?
People with vaginas (including men who have vaginas) are said to require approximately 15 minutes of stimulation to experience orgasms during sex. The stimulation mentioned here relates to arousal and includes the stimulation of the clitoris (the clitoral head) and other sensitive spots of the body.
You always need to start sex with non-genital stimulation through foreplay. The foreplay umbrella covers a lot of sexual activities that you can explore including the stimulation of every other part of the body but the genitals; flirting all day through sexting; role play; outdoor kissing; erotic dancing; spanking; teasing; wax play; spider walking, etc. You will find a lot more in my book, Hot Sex Everyday. Get it on Kindle or join the waitlist for the hard copy.
Exploring Clitoral Stimulation for more Pleasurable G-Spot Stimulation
If you are a vagina owner, know that the G-spot is more pronounced and responds better to stimulation when you are highly aroused.
Yes, foreplay can make you highly aroused, but adding outer clitoral stimulation to the mix should make your experience so much better.
You can explore clitoral stimulation by masturbating with your fingers before meeting up with your partner. You can also masturbate with your partner via video call or in person; let your partner watch you masturbate; or do it together to prime you for the session ahead.
After sufficient arousal has been established, you can still do more for more pleasure before penetrating the vagina with the penis or strap-on dildo. First, if possible, explore cunnilingus (or oral sex on women). Remember, oral sex is still a route for the transmission of STIs, so being safer by using dental dams or condoms should benefit you if you or your partner haven’t tested in a while, if you have an STI, or if you aren’t certain that they do not have any STI.
During cunnilingus, you stimulate the clitoris directly, so if the vagina owner is having a good time, adding G-spot stimulation to the mix can make it more intense and make them more ready for penetration.
When you finally penetrate the vagina, ensure that it is very lubricated and that your partner is ready for penetration. Start with the not too hard sex positions and explore those that make outer clitoral stimulation possible.
You can stimulate the clitoris during penetrative sex with fingers or sex toys. Once either of the partners can reach the clitoris to stimulate it, you are good. If there are more than two partners in the session, great! Then one partner can focus on stimulating the vagina owner’s most sensitive spots, including their clitoris. If there are more vagina owners in the session, take turns pleasing each of them during foreplay and penetration for pleasurable G-spot stimulation.
Lubricant for Pleasurable G-Spot Stimulation
You need to own a lubricant. Look out for water-based lubricants that do not contain glycerin or parabens and use a lot of it during vaginal penetration. This is to ensure that the vagina is very relaxed and ready for penetration.
Keep in mind that because of hormonal changes, the vagina might not lubricate when the vagina owner is having the most amazing time. Sometimes, they can have an orgasm while the vagina is dry. That is why lubricants are needed. Even when the vagina owner is lubricated, rubbing the lubricant with your entire palm on the vulva and fingering the vagina with a lot more can feel really nice. So, use a lubricant!
Easy Sex Positions for G-Spot Stimulation (from SexPositionsClub)
4. Comfortable Place
5. Orgazmic Penetration
13. Sweet Sin
15. Erotic Poster
16. Coffee Table
19. Milk Chocolate
20. Shy Girl
21. Lazy Evening
27. Tug of War
29. Deck Chair
31. Rear Admiral
32. Low Doggy
33. Swing – 2
35. Low Start
36. Intimate Launch Pad
37. Nice Talk
38. Awesome Idea
39. Iron Throne
41. Beautiful View
43. Spicy Dish
44. Tight Squeeze
46. Reverse Doggy
47. Fifth Element
48. Mature Lady
49. Legs on Shoulders
55. Eiffel Tower
56. London Bridge
64. Captain of a Ship
66. T Square
69. Ribbon (Reverse Spoon)
72. Ice cream
76. Bow – 2
92. Spread Eagle
94. Magic Mountain
100. Russian Roulette
Spice up your sex life by exploring these sex positions. Do a number per session and note the ones that felt the most pleasurable. Which is your favorite sex position? Which are you looking to try first? Let us know in the comments!