Ladies, Be Sexy For Your Partner(s)! Learn How To Grind, Twerk And Give Them A Lap Dance

Sexy, erotic dances like twerking, lap dances, grinding on your partner, or dancing during a striptease can be such a fun way to seduce your partner, turn them on, and build up sexual energy. It’s an amazing way to feel sexy for your man, woman, or partner, while giving them a sensual experience that they won’t soon forget.

Do I Need To Learn How to Twerk & Give my Partner a Lap Dance?

I get it. You might be thinking, “I can’t twerk,” or, “I’m not flexible enough to whine my waist,” or even, “Dancing isn’t really my thing.” But here’s the truth: if you don’t try something, you’ll never know if you might be good at it. Sometimes, just giving it a go is all it takes to realize you’ve got moves. Plus, there are so many YouTube tutorials that teach you how to twerk, dance sensually, seduce a partner with your moves, give a lap dance, or even do a striptease.

It might take time to perfect your dance, and that’s okay. Patience and regular practice are key to mastering sexy, erotic dance routines.

How to be Be Sexy for your Partner?

Being sexy starts with feeling good in your own skin. It’s about wearing clothes (or not) that make you feel good and moving in ways that make you feel sensual. Ask yourself: Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, “Wow, I look so sexy”?

What does “sexy” look like for you? What does it feel like? When you know your own version of sexy, you can channel that into the way you dress, move, and interact with your partner. Try this exercise: think about the sexiest song you know. Now picture yourself starring in the music video—what are you wearing? How are you moving? Are you naked? What vibe are you giving off? Use that visualization to inspire your confidence and embrace your unique sexiness.

Personally, I find that heels instantly make me feel sexier and more confident. Taking care of myself and knowing I look good helps me embody that sexy energy. And once you feel sexy for yourself, it’ll come naturally when you’re being sexy for your partner. Just be yourself, move your body, and let them get mesmerized by your aura.

Learning How To Give A Lap Dance/Twerk or do a Sexy Dance

Learning how to seductively dance for your partner can be so much fun. It’s thrilling to be able to turn your partner on with your moves, and trust me, once you’ve mastered it, you’ll feel like the sexiest person on the planet. Here’s how you can get started with some basics:

How To Give A Lap Dance

1. Sit on your partner’s lap.
2. Get comfortable and start gyrating your hips.
3. If your back is facing them, rest your hands on your knees or the chair’s arms and rub your butt back and forth slowly.
4. If you’re facing them, rub your vulva on their lap, aiming to stimulate your clit. If they have a penis, use more pressure as you move to heighten both your pleasure and theirs.

Remember to do what feels sexy to you as you grind your butt on your partner, moving slowly and at different angles to turn them on. If your partner has a penis, focus on rubbing against it, sliding from the base to the tip, and back again until you feel them getting hard. Be intentional with the way you move your butt to elicit arousal.

How to Twerk for Your Partner

1. Stand with your feet apart
2. Bend and hold your knees
3. Bend your back inwards
4. To twerk, pop your butt up and down slowly. Pretend you are throwing your butt up to reach the roof or sky.
5. Pop your butt up slowly, bring it back down, pop it up again, and bring it down.

Twerking can be a great way to feel more confident and feminine. Plus, it makes sex more exciting! If you’re in a position like reverse cowgirl, you can twerk on your partner’s penis and take things up a notch.

Other Ways Ladies Can Be Sexy:

1. Get on the Dining Table!

Sometimes, switch things up by turning your dining table into a dance floor! Get on it, crawl seductively towards your partner, and move your body in a way that teases them. Suck on your finger while making eye contact, or rub your hands over your body, especially where they love to touch you. It’s all about building anticipation.

2. Go Clubbing!

Head out for a night of dancing with your partner. Whether it’s a club or a salsa session, dancing together in public can be incredibly sexy and build intimacy. For cis-women, bringing fresh ideas like this into your relationship can be empowering and fun.

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Erotic dances can add excitement to your relationship and enhance your sex life. So what are you waiting for? Learn how to twerk, give a lap dance, and seduce your partner with your moves. Once you’ve tried it, let me know how it goes!

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