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DO YOU OR DOES SHE HAVE A LOOSE VAGINA? HOW TO TELL

QUIT TRYING SO HARD TO SHAME WOMAN BY SAYING THEY HAVE A “LOOSE” VAGINA. SEX DOESN’T MAKE THE VAGINA LOOSE!!

Having sex with huge penises won’t make the vagina loose and one or two births in your twenties or late teens won’t make the vagina loose.

I guess we’ve all heard men tag women as hoes because their vagina was presumed to be loose. It’s rather funny and sad for anyone to think that a vagina that stretches out to let a big-headed, fat baby out and tightens back within six months would permanently stretch out to become loose after letting a mere penis, which will be no thicker than 6 inches, in and out. The vagina is elastic and usually snaps back to its previous shape or tightness after being stretched out to let anything in or out.

A woman can have sex with 1000 men and still have the tightest vagina in the world while another who has only had sex with one men whose penis size is way too small to stretch the vagina can have a “loose” vagina.

WHAT MAKES THE VAGINA LOOSE?

Vaginas are different, they come in different shapes and sizes. Some are quite big but on the onset, have the hymen (a thin fringe of tissue) at the opening to give the illusion that it is tight enough. So, after sexual intercourse, you will find that the vagina no longer feels as tight as it was when you were still a virgin. It’s just because the hymen broke/ stretched open and there is no longer a thing covering your vagina.

NOTE THIS: The hymen doesn’t only break/ stretch out during sex, it can break because of sporting activities, insertion of tampons, sex toys or fingering.

  • INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES

Internal structure, vaginal walls and pelvic floor muscles can affect vaginal tightness. Injury to the vaginal area, legs or hips can also make the vagina loose.

  • MULTIPLE VAGINAL CHILDBIRTHS

Just like an elastic band loses its elasticity after being stretched a great deal over time, making it hard to snap back to its original shape, the vaginal muscles can become less elastic after multiple vaginal childbirths.

  • AGE AND LOW ESTROGEN LEVEL

The vagina also loses its elasticity as we grow older because of dropping estrogen levels that keep the muscles elastic enough to feel tight. So depending on the woman’s estrogen level, the elasticity can be affected at a much younger age or an older age.

  • AROUSAL

Arousal works to relax the vaginal muscles for the penis, no matter how big it is, to slide in comfortably. This can give the illusion that the vagina is loose when in actual fact, it just happened because the woman is ready to receive and accommodate the penis for a fun and pleasurable experience.

  • WEIGHT GAIN

Significant weight gain can cause the dropping of the pelvic floor muscles and this can affect elasticity and make the vagina feel loose. To correct this, exercise your pelvic floor muscles or do kegels.

WHEN DO WE SAY A VAGINA IS LOOSE? SIGNS OF VAGINAL LOOSENESS

  • URINE

Trouble holding urine is one sign and passing out urine when you laugh, cough or sneeze.

  • FINGERS

When your fingers can no longer fill you up during masturbation, causing you to insert more fingers, larger objects or your fist. To confirm, insert three or more fingers inside your vagina at the same time and it will still feel loose.

You can also insert your index finger and try contracting your vaginal walls or muscles. It needs to have a grip on the finger, so first start with one finger. If it feels loose, with no grip, try with two fingers and increase the number till you finally have a grip

  • VAGINAL SELFIE

Take a vaginal selfie without spreading out your labia. If it looks open or the cavity is evident, your vagina might be loose.

  • LITTLE OR NO PLEASURE ATTAINED DURING PENETRATION

If the vagina is loose, penetration should no longer feel pleasurable and when thrusting in and out, an erect penis can get soft because of low elasticity of the vagina.

  • LEGS HELD TOGETHER DURING SEX

If your partner has to always hold your legs together during penetration to give the tight feel, it might be because your vagina feels loose to him.

  • If you start encountering difficulties attaining orgasms like you used to in the past, it might be because of the elasticity.
  • Frequent queefing is also be a sign.

THE TEST CAN BE DONE USING THE BEN WA BALLS

Put the kegel or ben wa balls in your vagina. If you are tight, you shouldn’t be able to hold the ball in even when you are squatting.

  • You are tight enough and have good vaginal strength if you stand with your legs spread widely apart without the ball dropping onto the floor
  • Your vagina is “loose” if the balls fall out even when you’re standing with your legs closed.

Vaginal looseness can be frustrating for both partners so you shouldn’t wait for it to happen before putting measures in place to correct it. If that happens, you might lose interest in sex or your partner won’t enjoy sexual intercourse with you.

WHAT TO DO TO KEEP IT TIGHT

You shouldn’t wait for your vagina to become “loose” before working to keep it tight. Just like we work out to keep the body in shape, exercise the vaginal muscles to maintain its elasticity.

Start by doing kegels a number of times daily and over time, you will be tighter than you was. You can also take herbal supplements intended to strengthen muscles to keep the vagina in good shape and form. 

Have any questions or issues relating to this topic? Leave them in the comments or email me and I will reply as soon as I can

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9 Comments

  1. My name is Vicky from Utah, my contact phone number ( +12136340116 ) After giving birth to my third child, my husband complained about not enjoying the sex because i was having a loose Virgina, i went to various hospitals and did exercise but non work out for me, so a friend of mine introduce me to a herbal Doctor, i contacted him and explained to him and he sent to me the herbal medicine and herbal oil through courier services, i used it as directed by Dr AREBUN and after three weeks i have my tight Virgina back, i am very happy now also my husband is enjoying sex again, i am sharing this for women out there having similar problem please do contact Dr AREBUN via ( drarebunherbalhome@gmail.com ). contact DR AREBUN now and get your Virgina tightening again, you will thank me later.

    • Hello, im Jessica. I'm 35 years old, have had 3 vaginal deliveries. My husband says he is unhappy with our sex life. When I ask him why he was unhappy with sex, he said that my vagina was the reason. He said he could hide a 24oz can drink in it. I went got my mirrors to look at my vagina. With my legs open, omg big hole. With my legs up but closed still open, about 2in by 2in opening. I have been to several Doctors, zero answers from them. Somebody's got to know some way to help....

    • Hi Jessica, there are a number of options for you that include surgical vaginal tightening, doing kegels, and using herbs to tighten your vagina. Can you shoot me an email? I can connect you with someone who used herbs for her vagina as it is done in Ghana (where I’m from). Every mother after childbirth, undergoes vaginal steaming with healthy herbs that restores their vaginal tightness. Sorry for replying this late but I believe one of the mothers I know can be of great help to you. My email is amishikah@gmail.com

  2. Does Loose vagina only refers to that "hole" and not the vaginal lips? I cannot even put a finger in the "hole" properly but my vaginal lips are too big which worries me alot and affects my confidence. Can u plz tell me asap? BTW thanks for this information

    • Hello, the article was mainly about the hole but labia sizes vary. Not all labias are small.. some are wider and others are tiny. You need to accept that and learn to appreciate what you have. I understand how you feel because in porn, you don’t see large labias but so many women have large labias. Unless you want to have a surgery to reduce the size (labiaplasty), you can try to read more about how there are different types and they are all beautiful. Learn to love it and be confident!

  3. I have to be truthful, what ever girlfriend or wife I have been with I made it my personal goal to make a gap that you could see when ever she wore pants, bikini bottoms or you had her naked. Some men prefer large gaps, big holes, and lips that sag down. You can talk about big tits, big dicks but heaven forbid you say I like big clits.

  4. I am a man of 75 years old,and I have been with 10 or 15 women over the years,and I got to a point in my life that I noticed that each woman was different in tightness. I talked to the women and after awhile they would tell me how dicks they had had in them. Some of the women were snug and felt good,but some of them was loose to the point that I could not cum after 30 minutes of foreplay and pounding, and later over drinks she told me that she had been with 4 or 5 big 8 and 9 inch dicks. I told her that I could tell that from the first time that we were togeather til now,that her pussy was looser and I could not cum, we parted ways and I have not seen her sence. I want to point out the fact that when a man s dick goes in,he makes a note in his brain astonishment how good or how bad she was. I have kept a little black book for years on women and I can tell you that a womans pussy does get bigger over time with all of the dicks,but it gets worse when she has had alot of big dicks. I have talked to afew friends of mine who are doctors,and they have said that they can tell when a woman has had alot of big dicks,because of the size of thier pussy tube. The tube in some cases are flared out on the end because of the big dicks and the tube is very thine like tissue paper. I know for sure that i'am not the only man to realize this,and this is why so many men are not getting married.Women think that they can do what ever they want to and it is find,but they had better realize that most men don't a SLUT for a wife or the mother of his kids! And also they mite just wind up growing old alone!

  5. You can say that vaginas will go back to thier natural shape after being fucked,or you can say that big dicks don't hurt any thing,but the truth is that I have worked in hospitals and I have seen for my self some of the things that happen to a vagina.I have seen women that were in thier mid 20s to 30yrs old have a vagina that had the inside of a vagina hanging down 4 or5 inches below the vagina between the legs,and the only way we had to put it back was to cut out part of it and sew it back in place,but in doing so she lost about half of her feeling. There was another woman that came in with her walls of her vagina hanging down almost to her knee's,and it was caused because ok f her love of big dicks. She told us that she really liked big dick,so she would go all over town looking for them,and she lost her ability to have sex because of the damage that was done to her walls being streatched by the big dicks. The walls of a vagina will take abuse for awhile,but when they give out like hers did,the only thing that can be done is to cut part of them out,and sew the rest up tight to give a dick a good feeling so he could cumm,but her walls started tearing in to the meat,and because of the tissue being abused,her pussy could not take a big dick any more,but some of the guys knew her and knew that she was a slut,so to make a long story short,she had to settle for smaller dicks,but the smaller dicks did not want her,so now she lives alone at 30 yrs old and most likely will never be a mom or a wife! I wonder how she feels about that?

    • Hi , mr micheal Lawrence how can I get into contact with you I’d like for you to help me understand my situation as I’m goin through something similar . Thank you

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